Times in JAV Where You'd Rather Watch Than Be There

Orgy scenes in JAV are almost always awesome. It's great seeing a beautiful actress suck multiple cocks one after another, and it's enticing to see all three of her holes get filled at once. Witnessing sex in "excess" with non-stop activity and perversion one deed after another will never not be pleasing to watch - but when it comes to actually doing it in real life, I imagine it is far less entertaining.

Actually being there would be a completely different experience. While things could differ depending on whether there's three other guys there versus thirty, one apparent negative to actually being there in an orgy is the lack of personal space. Being a straight man, I think it's safe to say that being in close proximity to another naked man isn't exactly a pleasant experience - you'd rather be immersed by the presence of the female actress. Now combine this with the fact that people put off body heat and odor (even if washing is required before work), and even more so in tight spaces and grouped together, things can get really gross, really fast. Depending on how many guys there are in the scene, you have to worry about your dick coming into contact with other men too, something many would probably prefer to avoid. Distractions like this can make it harder to focus on the woman and do what needs to be done.

Actresses: Yuu Kawano, Yukari Mayama, Aya Sugiki:

There's also the fact that men will be making noises and grunting from doing these sexual deeds - can you imagine having a dude moaning essentially right in your ear? That'd definitely be a turn-off for me.

Those who aren't exactly in the best physical shape could also suffer in an actual orgy, as sometimes these orgy scenes in JAV can be physically demanding. Sure, adrenaline does some heavy lifting, but sometimes it's not enough. Some scenes are just built around duration and repetition, and can end up extending into really long sessions where a participant can just end up fatigued, bored, sore, or combinations of all three. I can admit that a little fatigue after great sex is not only expected but also kind of rewarding in a way, but too much fatigue and you're just questioning your life choices at that point.

One last point is the social pressure - with so many people present in a scene, all eyes are on you when you're up to perform. The societal pressures here for you to properly perform can be nerve-wracking, especially in a scene as fast-paced as an orgy. No one wants to be the guy in the orgy who can't orgasm, and then have to face that shame in front of how many other people. Same thing with volume, as watchers expect huge loads that get good distance and paint the woman on-target, and failing to meet those expectations can make a person feel rather embarrassed.

This is comparable to orgies but I figured this deserved its own section since not all orgies have multiple cumshots (though, preferably I think they should). Naturally, in a bukkake scene, it requires multiple men to ejaculate onto the female actresses (usually only one actress) - and, of course, there is always the potential for a "misfire". Accidentally touching your dick on another guy's dick or body is one thing, but becoming a target for an ejaculatory misfire definitely steps things up to 11. I can't imagine anything more off-putting or make me immediately want to leave, and the worst part is ejaculations are hard to control, so these misfires aren't even intentional and can be unpredictable. Yes, the chance of this can be minimized by simply moving out of the way, but in bigger orgies or at some moments, that can be difficult. Not to mention, I feel like crowding around the actress real close is part of the fantasy - moving too far away might impact that.

This one will depend on the person's tastes, but I feel moments where the power balance isn't in the male's favor would probably be a situation that JAV enthusiasts wouldn't want to try in reality. Take for example, a JAV where the female actress is a boss of an office, and she tends to be very dominant over her subordinates. Male actors might be made to act shy or weak, to better emphasize the actresses' superiority. While I can admit that it's fun to have the woman be dominant and take the lead every now and again, some men might not prefer to be the submissive one in a sexual situation.

By extension, sexual acts that are female dominant, such as pegging the guy in the ass with a dildo, or eating out his ass, or putting him in humiliating positions while riding his dick, these are all things that some might find unfavorable. To a lot of men, these sort of sex acts are humiliating and make them not feel as dominant, not to mention, several men don't really get pleasure out of anal stimulation, so it can feel pointless, in a way. I suppose the same could be argued for anal with female actresses, but I think that's more about the fantasy, and I believe more men would be hesitant to do such acts in reality versus women.

This one is blatant, but still very important to bring up. It's only obvious that JAV consumers have specific preferences, whether it be small-breasted or large-breasted actresses, tit fucks, feet, or orgies, we'll naturally want to put ourselves in a scenario with a sexual fetish or bodily trait that we enjoy. If you despise feet and you're put in a scene where you have to rub your dick against a woman's soles, you're obviously going to have a less than ideal time.

Other fetishes included I think would be ones that are overly gross or unhygienic - anal for instance. Anal is a surprisingly popular fetish in JAV, with a lot of the joy of consuming it coming from the fantasy of women having "two holes to choose from" down there. However, anal is anything but pleasurable for most people. In fact, it's quite dangerous if not done properly and can lead to an emergency room visit. As a result, anal is a very careful "procedure" of sorts to prevent any sort of incident. Couple this with the fact that anal involves a cavity that expels waste, and many more people will be put off.

Actresses: Anna De Vil, Tei Arekushisu, Rususa Bera, Panta Black, Dahlia Sky, Deruza Jia, Katrina Jade, Kapuri Koi, Level rider, Ridia Black:

Imagine being made to move in very specific and careful ways to avoid an incident, it doesn't feel that great for the recipient, and there is also the potential to get human waste on your dick? Yes, actors and actresses clean themselves thoroughly, but the slim possibility of it happening still grosses a lot of people out, so many would not be enthused to do anal in reality.

Other fetishistic acts that are highly gross and unsanitary would probably get passed over as well, but then there's also humiliation - a lot of JAV are obsessed with this fetish. Those trying this in real life would have moral quandaries with doing things that could make an actress feel uncomfortable or demeaned, even if it's fake and she's merely acting. I doubt such individuals would deride pleasure from doing this either, so that's another one that many would probably hate doing in reality.