Sex and life advice from JAV Male Actors (Part 1)

Just like any physical activity, sex takes skill. It is not enough to know how to blast your tool into a hole. You have to know the subtleties of sexual dynamics, the many erogenous zones, the pacing from foreplay to aftercare, and so on. And who are better to educate us about how to become better performers in bed than the pros?

Fortunately, many male JAV actors are not stingy in sharing information and tips on how to become a sex machine. Here are some of the best advices I have gathered from some of these veterans.

Fortunately, Shimiken knows a thing or two about cock sneeze. Ken Shimizu, also known as Shimiken, is considered as one of the most popular male JAV actors. The actor is also known for being media-savvy and opinionated, so he often gets media attention.

In one of his many interview, Shimiken shares his advice on how to last longer in bed:

"Most men can't pull out and take a break from sex because it feels so good! Lasting longer in bed is about thrusting until you’re almost about to orgasm and then pulling out and taking a quick break."

Shimiken shares that premature ejaculation is a problem simply because sex feels like the most heavenly feeling in the world. However, not all men have the willpower to stop when it is necessary. Therefore, it is largely a problem with lack of discipline and self-control.

According to Shimiken, lasting longer takes some practice. Start by thrusting and putting yourself on the verge of orgasm. Then, pull out and take a break. This would be the best time to do a bit of foreplay. Go down on your partner, finger her, give her some kisses, or even cuddle her while doing some dirty talk. This will train your dick as well as your mind to become more disciplined.

This advice has a lot of merits. First, it will get you accustomed to controlling your orgasm. Second, your partner will appreciate you arousing her in ways other than straight-up fucking her. Third, this will also make sex a lot more varied, longer, and intimate. The foreplay and teasing will also heighten your partner’s arousal, which can lead to a more explosive orgasm. Finally, this will make your own orgasm more worth it. It’s the best of all worlds.

However, for porn veteran Shigeo Tokuda, a big part of the problem comes from simple inattentiveness.

Shigeo Tokuda is believed to be the world’s oldest porn star. In fact, this legendary old man started his adult industry career at the age of 70. His secret for staying long in the industry: paying attention to things.

According to Shigeo, many men experience lower libido because

"..as you get older, you tend to pay less attention to certain things, and I don’t just mean women. There’s usually a little time to talk before shooting, and that’s when I’d tell an actress what I found beautiful about her. Who doesn’t like hearing something like that? Beyond that, it’s a good way to build communication and connection. Being genuinely interested in observing her can naturally lead to being more interested in her as a person, which can then spark thoughts about her body and what sex with her might be like.”

Such beautiful advice from one of JAV’s old sages. But don’t be deceived: it is way deeper than you may think.

When people engage in actual sex, it is way different from consuming porn. In porn, you get to choose what kind of content pleases you. You have the power to curate exactly what kind of material, niche, and even the looks of the women will get you off. However, things are usually a lot different in real life. A woman is not simply an object; she is another person who has her own story, moods, inclinations, and desires. Her looks and body may not necessarily be your type: no real person can embody the perfect sex machine you are getting from porn.

However, old Tokuda says that having the curiosity and being attentive enough can inspire your libido in more ways. Get to know the person, be attentive to the details, not only of her physical traits, but her personality, her quirks and habits. Once you build enough rapport with a woman’s real personhood, a deeper kind of attraction can happen between you and your partner, which can lead to better sex.

So imagine you’re on a date. Not a serious date, where you’re looking for a romantic partner. Just a simple meet-up, or someone you met on a club. You want to know if this person is interested in having sex with you, but you don’t know how.

Try Genjin-sama’s “Erection Announcement” move. So what is it? When the conversation gets steamy (which is what you should be doing if you’re interested only in having sex), say it bluntly: “I’m having an erection.”

Sounds too bold? The actor explains: “If you want to successfully convince a woman to go to bed with you on date, then you need to be confident from the get-go. If you don’t know how, this is an easy method. Observe how she will react when you tell her you’re getting a hard-on. See how she reacts when you tell her that you’re getting an erection. If she's super turned off at that point, then you can assume that’s the end of the road for you.”

It may sound risky, but actually it’s not. There is nothing wrong with saying you’re getting an erection when said in the right context. Moreover, her reaction will tell you how to go forward without beating around the bush.

What do you think about these advice? Watch out for the next part and more sex advice from JAV male actors!